Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Benjamin Howard Carter with the following comment:
It is a distant relative of mine that I have been researching lately. I was super excited to find this gravestone, because I haven't been able to find any death date information. I only have birth and marriage information. So, this will greatly help me move forward in my research. Also, I am guessing that several of his relatives are probably buried near him, and I would love to be able to find more information about them. This really does seem like a wonderful resource for me. Please send me whatever you can. I would really appreciate it! I can't believe that you don't get an acknowledgement or a thank you. This is an amazing service that you are providing. I know that it has gotten me super excited today, because I've been searching for this information for several weeks now. :-)